By Jennifer
Mullan
If you're reading this, you've been affected by feminism in some way.
One of the most influential movements in history is the second wave feminist movement, spanning from the 1960s-1970s. In a nutshell, second wave feminism fought for reproductive rights, workplace equality and challenged traditional gender roles. These feminists organised protests, sparked conversations and created highly impactful literature. A decade before this movement began The Second Sex (1949) by Simone De Beauvoir was published. De Beauvoir's ideas stood as a foundation and inspiration for many of the values of second wave feminists.
One of the successes of second wave feminism is shown in the sexual freedom of women in Monkey Grip (1977) by Helen Garner, published on the tail end the movement. Garner unflinchingly continually mentions the traditionally taboo topics of sex, contraceptives and abortions. Due to the legalisation of abortions in Australia and the increased access to different contraceptives, the women of 1970s Australia no longer had a reduced risk and fear of becoming pregnant or having to sustain an unwanted pregnancy.Men and Power
An idea
expressed in The Second Sex is that men often feel the need to maintain
control and will manipulate things to keep it that way. Monkey Grip describes
this when Nora, the main character’s friend Paddy tells a story where a guy
drives her car, ignores her advice (about her car) and didn’t
like the fact that she paid for their food – because she took the more “manly”
role. Paddy states that “He just didn’t like to be in a situation where I was
in control.” This need for control manifests itself through the use of the
power that men hold over women. Another example of this, again in Monkey
Grip, is when a male character, Gerald, drives Nora home. He is stuck on
the idea of sleeping with Nora and when she declines, he lashes out – shouting,
speeding and driving on the wrong side of the road. Nora describes this
behaviour as “that thing men do, he’s rushing to destruction… he’s power-mad, I
can’t do anything.”
This is furthered by the dynamic between
the two main characters, Gallimard and Song, in M Butterfly (1988) by
David Henry Hwang. Gallimard has cast himself as the strong alpha male, despite
having very little experience with romance, and Song as the submissive woman.
In the beginnings of their relationship, Gallimard believes he holds power over
Song, describing it as: “the absolute
power of a man”. Gallimard even states that “God is a man”, likening the power
of men in society to divine. This alludes to the idea that men consider
themselves the default and women afterthoughts, often derived from the creation
story in the Christian Bible. In this story, Adam is made first and Eve is only
created as a way to quench Adam’s boredom. This belief of humanity as male and
women as secondary, has trickled through time and is explored in The Second Sex.
Gender as a social
The Second Sex and M Butterfly both explore the idea
of gender as a social construct. The M from the title of the play can be
interpreted as Madame or Monsieur showing either gender can fulfil the stereotypical feminine role, separating the actions from the gender. In The
Second Sex, De Beauvoir writes: “One is not born, but rather becomes, a
woman”, describing femininity as a construction of the experiences and treatment of women in society. This brings forward the argument of existence
over essence. Are women born fully formed with ingrained submissive and
obedient natures? Or, do they adopt these values due to the constant
instruction that they have to act this way and will only be appreciated as long
as they are attractive to men? De Beauvoir and the wider 2nd wave
feminist movement argues the latter.
Gallimard has become so used to Song’s stereotypical effeminate ways that he has begun defining women not as biological sex but through their actions. Whether they were submissive or dominant, shy or confident.
The trouble defining femininity
Gallimard runs
into a problem here: the trouble with defining femininity. This idea, the myth of a singular womanhood,
is investigated in The Second Sex. There is no sole thing that is defined
as female or feminine. The experiences and identities of women are diverse and
each have their own way of defining femininity that does not fit into one
particular mold. This idea of the perfect woman has been perpetuated by men who
want to continue holding the power. In this, the perfect woman has been made compliant
and docile. Song’s womanly pretence was an embodiment of the
patriarchal society’s expectations and ideals for women in the 1960s-1970s. The
only ‘Perfect Woman’ that Gallimard ever encountered was Song’s façade showing
that this flawless stereotype is only a thing of make-believe.
The difficulty surrounding this definition is shown from a woman’s perspective in Monkey Grip. Nora usually determines her self worth based on her own ideals, exemplified near the beginning of the novel: “I liked myself: I looked strong”. In this scene, she has a dirty face and messy hair but she chooses to favour the less stereotypically feminine attribute of strength. This is contrasted to when Nora loses security in her relationship and she defers back to the idea that she is only valuable so long as men find her attractive. Telling herself that she is only feminine enough as long as she is pretty and desirable, expressing the sentiment that “[she is] afraid of people thinking [she’s] ugly.”

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super intriguing argument!
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